Read other blogs: stay in the game

I may come visit you next week!

During my scheduled hour of creative thinking/where to go from here time, my thoughts gravitated to other blogs written by women, many my age. I chose Midlifebloggers as a jump-off place, for this reason. True to statistics I have read,  almost half of the blogs are inactive. Seems the attraction of writing  blogs does not sustain the test of time. More about this on a later post.

Stony River caught my eye.  Perched atop the twitter box sat an adorable black crow. You see, I collect primitive crows: cloth ones, wooden ones, crows made of tin. One year my Christmas tree was decorated with a swarm of crows! Moving past the incredible header this blog is filled with trails and roads of adventure.

As I commented on Stony River a washing machine is but an occupant in our home. We do not think about nor pay much attention to UNTIL it decides to leave. Then we believe our focused pampering will make a difference? I tell myself I will nurture and spoil my next Maytag, but I must confess, I do not do it. I find myself jamming towels in my washing machine without giving my machine a thought.

Thank you Susan for this on point post reminding me to be more appreciative of things that make my life easier.  Without my washing machine, I would be down at the laundromat or God forbid, washing things in an iron pan in the yard.

With you, reader, as my witness, I promise to acknowledge the importance of this machine in my life regularly.Stony River is packed full of fun- go on over there.

The other blog to catch my eye was The Raisin Chronicles. I do hope my face does not look like a raisin- I am using this as a subtle, yet effective reminder to use moisturzer and sunscreen in the morning and heavy duty moisturizer at night. Just sayin’

Referencing her childhood years in the 60′s, Jeanne engages the reader in her present predicament: her role as receiver of all homegrown vegetables. As if they believed she fed a family of eight vegetarians, friends and family do not let the sun set without dropping off a bushel of  vegetables.  She, as I,  grew up in the era of the clean plate club,  as well as the people are starving in China routine . These mantras were ingrained in our subconscious. I identified and laughed with her as she languished over making zucchini bread with the most recent batch of vegetables. The icing on the cake was her admission via the Raisin Chronicles that she hated to cook. We are sisters. I love this post. Give yourself a gift today; scoot over to The Raisin Chronicles.

So why did I title this post Read other blogs, stay in the game? Sometimes we get so wrapped up in what is going on close to us we miss the obvious. By reading other blogs, we reconnect with the world, if only for a couple of hours. Then, yes we can retreat to our personal tales of woe, e.g. hot flashes, sopping sheets and menopause.

If this is your first time at savor the ride, keep reading, you can’t miss my previous post, Where have all the stewardesses gone and for gosh’s sake, please subscribe. I write 2-3 times a week- the complete post comes to your email- no clicking to Nebraska before reading. You can unsubscribe at any time. The pictures even show up. Did I mention this is free? Don’t forget Stony River & and The Raisin Chronicles.

Hot flashes & OPI nail polish

A woman is afforded certain luxuries when she reaches middle age. To make up for the hot flashes, night sweats, mood swings and insomnia we endure, we often  treat ourselves with visits to the nail salon.

I get my nails done professionally every 2-3 weeks.  LT would love it if I wore Dolly Parton cherry red nail polish year round. For the summer months I have, however, convinced him fuschia is just as dramatic. He has agreed only if I follow the wear white until Labor Day rule.

My schedule for wearing OPI’s version of fuschia, Shorts Story, falls in line with when it is appropriate to wear white shoes. Very simple really, put up my shorts, my Shorts Story nail polish and my white patent leather pumps the day after Labor Day.

I wish I could schedule my hot flashes as easily as following the white Labor Day rule. My best attack against a mega-hot flash is putting a bag of frozen vegetables under each arm. Thought I might have to grap a bag of peas this am but was false alarm- it’s 92 degrees here- everyone is hot.

Last Saturday I made a trip to my nail salon. Place was packed- feet in water, hands under lights, surgical masks on… serious nail work in session.

All age groups were represented, including a

  • Soccer Mom carrying an O magazine
  • New mother juggling a baby, baby bag and baby carrier
  • Teenager in tank top and flip flops (never looks up as she is texting nonstop)
  • Business woman in Nancy Pelosi suit (I cannot wait to see her walking out to her car with those paper flip flop shoes. I KNOW she is not going to put back on those power 3″ pumps over  her freshly pedicured feet.)

The color of nail polish a woman wears makes a statement about herself. Sitting there I tried to guess what shade of nail polish each of these patrons would select. I have to say I was momentarily tempted to select one of the shades formulated/promoted in conjunction with the Shrek movie: green sparkly Shrek OPI nail polish.  I decided to give LT a break this week.

  • The Soccer Mom will, no doubt, select something practical, yet a little special  so she’s going to go with Isn’t it Romantic?
  • The Young Mother is so excited to be out of the house she will agree to just about any color, yet does not want her mother-in-law to think she pampering herself instead of the new grandbabby, so let’s go with Coney Island Cotton Candy
  • Teenager is into sky blue, so hers is Absolutely Alice, a creamy darkish baby blue
  • Nancy Pelosi look-alike will without question go with a french manicure- impeccable at all times.

My problem is I find a shade I like or one i don’t like, i cannot remember what it was- so i may or may not end up with one i like or don’t like. If you followed that train of thought, i’m impressed- we need to meet.

(on OPI site, click on center hand on bottom of screen to see all hyperlinked colors)

My hands now done, I sit with my hands under the magic light, I daydream. Without warning, ideas for three savor the ride posts enter my train of thought.

Now, if you are a writer, in any medium, you can understand the importance of recording these fleeting thoughts on paper. They do not linger. These yearned for subjects are gone in the bat of an eye. Seven minutes left under the light. Damn, I can feel my pulse rate rising.

As thoughts are racing through my brain, I try to assign an acronym to the ideas. I look next to me, imagining my asking the lady if she could just jot down a few words for me while her pedicure dries. No, I attempted to engage the public when I did not have a pen at the post office. No repeat of that – Back to the mantra in my mind.

Oh soccer mom just sat down on my left, asking questions about my pink pants.  I’m a goner- I hear myself saying, “thank you- I purchased them at Talbot’s” and now we’re off on a girl-girl conversation….

She loves Talbots.

I have a new friend.

What post ideas?

photo courtesy of OPI

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